Sorrisi e canzoni XVIII

Etoiles_mai
  1. definitive good news about M (congratulations, bellissima!)
  2. chametz
  3. new sources of inspiration
  4. bringing a smile to a friend’s face
  5. not having toxic shock syndrome (phew)
  6. seeing that people care when I have my doubts
  7. letting go of seductive but abusive activities and individuals
  8. brother Luigi
  9. Stars

Pensée du dimanche 4 mai

Repair

You know, if our ancestors had thrown out their furniture every decade, as we do, where would we go for antiques? Let us give some thought to the well-being and enjoyment of our descendants, patch up our lares and penates, and  hang on to them, so that the future will inherit at least some relics of our heedless and wasteful age. Working over something, and repairing it,—whether we re-finish furniture, fix over an old house, or put new cuffs on a sweater—not only gives things new life and makes them look cared-for, but embeds them still deeper in our affections.
—Elizabeth Zimmermann, Knitter’s Almanac

Sorrizi e canzoni XVII

Etoile_fin_avril
  1. true friends who hear and understand
  2. still more good news about M (in bocca al lupo, m*rde à la puissance treize, ptui ptui ptui)
  3. leading a seder with dear ones (and amazing food)
  4. yet another new friend thanks to knitting
  5. yoga’s power to transform a rotten day
  6. feeling detachment and compassion in the face of abuse
  7. the rain, which washes away the pollen (thank you, G-d)
  8. Dream of better lives, the kind which never hate…
  9. Butterò questo mio enorme cuore tra le stelle un giorno, giuro che lo farò…

Pensée du dimanche 27 avril

Notte_whitman

WHEN I heard the learn’d astronomer;
When the proofs, the figures, were ranged in columns before me;
When I was shown the charts and the diagrams, to add, divide, and measure them;
When I, sitting, heard the astronomer, where he lectured with much applause in the lecture-room,
How soon, unaccountable, I became tired and sick;
Till rising and gliding out, I wander’d off by myself,
In the mystical moist night-air, and from time to time,
Look’d up in perfect silence at the stars.
—Walt Whitman

Sorrisi e canzoni XVI

Cacciatore_stelle
  1. still more good news about M (in bocca al lupo, m*rde à la puissance treize, ptui ptui ptui!)
  2. bringing together two surpassingly cherished friends
  3. still more new friends, still more new opportunities to learn and grow (repeat of a repeat)
  4. a box of extreme lusciousness from Maine (tack så hemskt mycket!)
  5. chocolate-covered bread of our affliction (probably made a mess back in the desert)
  6. becoming ever more bendy
  7. a bit more clarity about rageaholism and abuse
  8. Scegli una stella, prendila, scegli le stelle, non perderle…
  9. E in mezzo a questo mare cercherò di scoprire quale stella sei
    perché mi perderei se dovessi capire che stanotte non ci sei…

Pensée du dimanche 20 avril

Pesach_5768

Freedom is taken, not given.
—Ahad Ha’am

vilaine fille wishes everyone blessings and miracles at Pesach!

Sorrisi e canzoni XV

Stelle_aprile_13
  1. that April has been such a fruitful month over the years (love those Aries!)
  2. still more new friends, still more new opportunities to learn and grow (repeat)
  3. not having left my knitting on the A train (phew)
  4. really good news from M (ptui ptui ptui) and encouraging signs from other friends
  5. getting a day off for Pesach (yay!)
  6. starting to let go of that bitterness
  7. L’altra mia Isotta (vorrei che fossi te! joyeux anniversaire, ma belle)
  8. Ce petit cœur (di chi altro?)
  9. Non m’importa della luna, non m’importa delle stelle, tu per me sei luna e stelle (buon compleanno)

Pensée du dimanche 13 avril

Om

Miss you, sweetie. Love you.

Sorrisi e canzoni XIV

Stelle_aprile
  1. to have had such a friend as RHH (repeat)
  2. words of healing and grace
  3. still more opportunities to be useful
  4. squeezing every last drop of lusciousness out of the day
  5. burnt caramel!
  6. finding perfect gifts for M and others
  7. Armenian and Veggie Planet delicacies (thanks, R and T)
  8. words and sounds of wisdom
  9. When You Wish Upon a Star

Pensée du dimanche 6 avril

Casa_mia
I have learnt how to live… How to be in the world and of the world, and not just to stand aside and watch. And I will never, never again run away from life. Or from love, either…
—Billy Wilder, Sabrina
Merci !

Sorrisi e canzoni XIII

Dante_stelle
  1. opportunities to be useful (repeat)
  2. physical activity and the ability to do it (repeat of a repeat)
  3. starting to recognize sick, abusive behavior for what it is
  4. still more new friends, still more new opportunities
  5. (veggie) burgers with S
  6. a reprieve from the disgusting warm weather
  7. the huge success of another bella piemontesina (but, ouf, that nano destroide!)
  8. Lost in the Stars
  9. Il est grand temps de rallumer les étoiles !

Pensée du dimanche 30 mars

Lampione
D’una città non godi le sette o le settantasette meraviglie, ma la risposta che dà a una tua domanda.
—Italo Calvino

Sorrisi e canzoni XII

Release_stars_mars
  1. MHS
  2. hanging with sweet kitties
  3. getting to know so many wonderful new people
  4. a first opportunity to heal that place
  5. gumption!
  6. eyes on the prize
  7. Quién escribe tu nombre con letras de humo entre las estrellas del sur?
    Ah déjame recordarte cómo eras entonces, cuando aún no existías.
  8. J’ai tendu des cordes de clocher à clocher ; des guirlandes de fenêtre à fenêtre ; des chaînes d’or d'étoile à étoile, et je danse.
  9. Avant que tu t'en ailles décrocher les étoiles…

Pensée du dimanche 23 mars

Obama_hope

I look forward to an America which commands respect throughout the world, not only for its strength, but for its civilization as well. And I look forward to a world which will be safe not only for democracy and diversity, but also for personal distinction.
—John F. Kennedy

To all who keep the holiday, vilaine fille sends best wishes for a happy and blessèd Easter!

Sorrisi e canzoni XI

Release_stars_marzo
  1. to have had such a friend as RHH
  2. feeling connected, useful, and loved
  3. military-strength Wellbutrin
  4. getting my mind severely blown (the description is bowdlerized drivel)
  5. and again
  6. dream visits
  7. Du moment qu’on s’aime, l’on devient si doux…
  8. Stardust…
  9. …and more Stardust
Thank you, dear heart, for the image!

Pensée du dimanche 16 mars

Rotto
If you believe breaking is possible,
believe fixing is possible.
—Rav Nachman of Breslov

Sorrisi e canzoni X

Pan_di_stelle
  1. the opportunity to spend time with A, C, J, and R
  2. multiple opportunities to experience genius
  3. a tender-hearted friend’s tough-love words (danke)
  4. the culinary delights of Somerville and East Boston
  5. opportunities to be useful (grazie, G, M e P)
  6. still more knitting-related miracles
  7. Provo l’incredulità amara e muta di ogni pubblico ingenuo…
  8. Aux clartés des étoiles, je crois encore la voir…
  9. La noche que me quieras desde el azul del cielo, las estrellas celosas nos mirarán pasar…

Pensée du dimanche 9 mars

Dolce_vita

Do not seek to follow in the footsteps of the wise;
seek what they sought.
—Bashō

International Women’s Day

Mimosa_2008

vilaine fille sends greetings to her sisters all over the globe for International Women’s Day, La Festa della Donna.

In particular, she salutes those lucky enough to live in civilized countries, who enjoy abortion rights; state-funded healthcare, child care, and maternity leave; and explicit guarantees of equality under the law. (G-d willing, she’s gonna be joining you real soon.)

Read Mary Wollstonecraft’s A Vindication of the Rights of Women.

Sorrisi e canzoni IX

Stelle_antiche
  1. happy anticipation of seeing faraway friends
  2. fan mail for baby undertakings
  3. that knitting helps with office politics, too
  4. prayer warriors in CA, IL, and oltreoceano
  5. letting go of junk, physical and emotional, and finding lost treasures
  6. having an overabundance of invitations for an upcoming trip
  7. lust
  8. Tutto è già qui: i torti, le ragioni, le grandi verità e le speranze vuote, la voce che non sa per chi si spenderà…
  9. Dove sarai, anima bella? Stella gemella, dove sarai? Magari dietro la luna sarai…

Pensée du dimanche 2 mars

Poudre
With some powder and some paint,
and the patience of a saint,
I’m still here.

My life’s not over yet,
I’m not up there on the shelf.
I’ve found someone to love
apart from just myself

I’ve had my fill of bitterness,
I’ve had my fill of dirt,
I’ve had enough of emptiness,
I’ve had enough of hurt.
I think we’ll get the last laugh
if we don’t break down and cry.
—Marc Almond

Pensée du lundi 25 février

Sheep_wolves

A nation of sheep
will beget a government of wolves.
—Edward R. Murrow

Sorrisi e canzoni VIII

Release_stars_fev
  1. ¡ …y hasta con plan de salud !
  2. the opportunity to make C and la S smile
  3. the return of reading
  4. The minute you commit to living an authentic life, the world shifts. Friends fall away. Sometimes even family. But once you decide to be part of the energy that heals rather than destroys life, there is no other path. (Thank you, dear heart!)
  5. remembering who I am, and being supported in the process (thank you, V)
  6. knowing that AB is back at home, comfortable and healing beautifully (thank you, G-d)
  7. that so many friends are ready to stand by me in my great adventure
  8. You got me writing lyrics on postcards, then in the evenings looking at stars…
  9. Someday I’ll wish upon a star and wake up where the clouds are far behind me…

Pensée du dimanche 24 février

Orizzonte

Non ti aspetto più,
neanche se quando ritorni
ritornasse un’altra estate.
Non ti aspetto più,
è passato molto tempo.
Le mie stagioni sono già finite.

Non ti aspetto più
e vado via da qui.
Oltre questo ponte,
un altro ponte,
e ancora un fiume,
e un altro fiume ci sarà.

Non ti aspetto più
e vado via perchè
oltre l’orizzonte
un altro mare,
e ancora un mare,
e un altro amore ci sarà…

I’m not waiting for you any longer even if, when you return, another summer should return. I’m not waiting for you any longer. Much time has passed, and my seasons are over. I’m not waiting for you any longer, and I’m leaving this place. Beyond this bridge, another bridge, and a river, and yet another river there will be. I’m not waiting for you any longer, and I’m leaving because, beyond the horizon, another sea, and yet another sea, and another love there will be…

Pensée du mardi 19 février

Fiori_dinverno_3…e poi viene un giorno
che a guardarlo passare
sembra il giorno di un altro
e di un altro le cose da fare
e di un altro la voce
e anche l’ombra sui muri
e di un altro anche i fiori
che ho preso per te

e sono fiori d’inverno
ma per un’altra stagione
oppure un altro ricordo
che adesso non so
nient’altro che fiori
cosa vorranno mai dire
a guardarli di nuovo
non dicono più

perché viene un giorno…
—Gianmaria Testa, “Nient’altro che fiori”


And then there comes a day that, to watch it pass, seems the day of someone else, of someone else the things to do, of someone else the voice, even the shadows on the walls, and even these winter flowers that I gathered for you. And they’re winter flowers, but for some other season, or for some other memory, of what now I don’t know—nothing but flowers, whatever might they mean? As I look at them again, they say no more. Because there comes a day…

Great news, New Yorkers: Gianmaria Testa will make one of his rare visits to the United States on 25 May, playing Joe’s Pub with flugelhorn virtuoso Paolo Fresu.

Rava_14

Gianmaria’s 1999 CD Lampo, a masterpiece bathed in moonlight and haunted by time’s dizzying rush, has been reissued (including English-language texts this time around).

“Nient’altro che fiori,” from Altre latitudini, features, among others, the great trumpeter Enrico Rava, one of the sexiest men on the planet, who plays Birdland 20–23 February along with pianist Stefano Bollani and other crack musicians. Rava and Bollani have a new ECM CD, The Third Man.

Giuseppe Filianoti: Proust Questionnaire

Filianoti_hoffmannOne of this opera season’s most eagerly anticipated events is just around the corner: the March return to the Met of tenor Giuseppe Filianoti as Edgardo in Lucia di Lammermoor, the role of his sensational 2005 company début.

Filianoti, who opened yesterday as Tom Rakewell in Palermo (his role début), has been to hell and back since his last local appearance, in OONY’s L’Arlesiana in February 2007—and I’m not referring only to the diabolical operas in which he has sung. On the heels of an acclaimed Rome run of Werther, Filianoti fell gravely ill with peritonitis following an appendectomy and was forced to withdraw from some six months of engagements.

His first performances after his illness—as Hoffmann in Hamburg and in Verdi’s Messa da Requiem in Torino—were popular and critical successes, though Il Corriere della Grisi’s Adolphe Nourrit expressed reservations about the Hoffmann. Opera Today’s critic, instead, praised Filianoti’s “balls-to-the-wall phrases,” of which vilaine fille says: Wow, that must hurt.

Filianoti_mefistofeleLast month’s Mefistofele in Palermo reportedly found the tenor in fine fettle. (Yes, that’s Mefistofele in the photo and not That ‘70s Show). And, as all the world knows, Filianoti will open the 2008-09 La Scala season in the title role of Verdi’s Don Carlo (Italian-language, four-act version) under Daniele Gatti. (vilaine fille’s birthday is the day after Sant’Ambrogio; she is SO there.)

Werther, Hoffmann, Faust, Don Carlo… That’s mighty heavy rep for a young singer. (Soon after his Met début, Filianoti opined that it was “too soon” for him to undertake Don Carlo.) And Edgardo’s tessitura is killing…

En tout cas, we wish Don Peppino a hearty in bocca al lupo and bentornato a New York! Alas, what with the silly set in the new Lucia, he probably will not be able to make his entrance running, with his cape swirling behind him—one of vilaine fille’s most cherished memories from thirty years of opera going. Filianoti also portrays Edgardo in San Francisco later this year. His upcoming performances include, as well, Werther in Genova, La clemenza di Tito in Torino, and Nicias in Thaïs (venue TBA).

Since Don Peppino is that rare tenor who reads Borges and Sgalambro, we thought it only fair to have him answer a version of the Proust questionnaire. (The Italian-language original will appear in print in coming weeks; if it makes its way to the web, I’ll post the link.)

Buona lettura!

Your most marked characteristic?
Determination.

The quality you most like in a man?
Courage.

The quality you most like in a woman?
Intelligence and intuition.

What do you most value in your friends?
Good faith.

Filianoti_alfredoWhat is your principal defect?
Being an introvert.

What is your favorite occupation?
Reading.

What is your dream of happiness?
Living in total serenity.

What to your mind would be the greatest of misfortunes?
Losing those I love.

What would you like to be?
Alight with wisdom.

In what country would you like to live?
Southern Italy.

What is your favorite color?
Brown.

What is your favorite flower?
All of them.

What is your favorite bird?
The phoenix.

Who are your favorite prose writers?
Too many, I couldn’€™t decide.

Who are your favorite poets?
Dante, Shakespeare, Leopardi, Montale.

Who is your favorite hero of fiction?
Edgardo, Achilles, Aeneas.

Who are your favorite heroines of fiction?
Desdemona, Anna Karenina, Dido.

Who are your favorite composers?
All those whose music I’ve sung along with Britten, Debussy, and Monteverdi.

Who are your favorite painters?
Mantegna, Leonardo, Raffaello, and Caravaggio.

Who are your heroes in real life?
I have none.

Who are your favorite heroines of history?
Joan of Arc, Mother Teresa of Calcutta.

What are your favorite names?
Arianna, Flavio.

What is it you most dislike?
The abuse of power.

What historical figure do you most despise?
Hitler.

What event in military history do you most admire?
None.

What natural gift would you most like to possess?
The ability to read my own soul.

How would you like to die?
I don’€™t think about it.

What is your present state of mind?
In progress (answered in English).

To what faults do you feel most indulgent?
Those belonging to the people dear to my heart.

What is your motto?
Don’€™t borrow trouble.

* * *

Update: La sor romana answers the ever-pressing question, How many tenors does it take to screw in a lightbulb?

Sorrisi e canzoni VII

Stelle_cadute
  1. perché la felicità si coltiva come un talento (grazie)
  2. sending and receiving Valentines
  3. gumption
  4. flashes of being who I am and doing what I love (with lots more to come)
  5. good sleep
  6. a spring in my step (for real!)
  7. other rewards of dumb persistence
  8. Tutte le stelle di questa montagna, così piccole e vicine saluterò…
  9. Something there is more immortal even than the stars,
    (Many the burials, many the days and nights, passing away,)
    Something that shall endure longer even than lustrous Jupiter,
    Longer than sun, or any revolving satellite,
    Or the radiant brothers, the Pleiades.

Pensée du lundi 18 février (Presidents’ Day)

Obama_hope

And until 20 January 2009, we say, with brother Nick: A ognuno puzza questo barbaro dominio (This barbarous regime stinks in all nostrils), De principatibus, XXVI.

A safe and relaxing holiday to my fellow Statunitensi!

Pensée du dimanche 17 février

Danza
And we should consider every day lost on which we have not danced at least once. And we should call every truth false which was not accompanied by at least one laugh.
—My sister Fred

San Valentino

Cuoricini

Love, like the light, silently wrapping all!
—Walt Whitman

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Whether your love be new or old, sad or glad, fleshly or of the spirit, or perhaps all of the above (why not?), vilaine fille sends you a baker’s dozen of musical roses and wishes you immense tenderness and joy.

  1. All you need is love
  2. Le ciel dans une chambre
  3. Carte da decifrare
  4. Architetture lontane
  5. Message personnel
  6. Mysteries of love
  7. Lady Marmelade
  8. Hallelujah
  9. Stormy weather
  10. I fell in love with a dead boy (pour moi-même)
  11. You are my sister (for S-C, MHS, RHH, AKS, JC, KMA, AF, GM, RS: I love you more than words can say)
  12. I’m not ready to love and Want

L’amour… supporte tout, croit tout, espère tout, endure tout. L’amour ne périt jamais.

Pensée du mercredi 13 février

Valises

Acceptance is often touted as the right move spiritually, and I think that an awful lot of us waste years trying to accept the things we are meant to change…

Accepting the unacceptable creates resentment. Resentment creates rage. Rage turned inward creates depression, and depression is a great excuse for martyrdom…

When we ask for acceptance and don’t get it, it’s not because G-d is hard of hearing. It’s because the answer is no. We are not being told “Try harder.” We are being told “Stop trying.” We are being told “Move on.”
—Julia Cameron, G-d Is No Laughing Matter

Nevicata

Nevicata

The peculiar quiet that blankets the city when even a light dusting of snow hugs the ground. Admiring the milky, billowing darkness from a cozy nook, reading e-mails from beloved friends. Walking up Broadway through a whirl of diamond crystals that kiss and sting my cheeks. Laughing away the evening in warm, sassy company as the sleet lashes the windows. Indulging (guilt-free) in stick-to-the-ribs comfort food. Trudging through slush and turning the corner only to find that my block still lies under a pristine, downy cover of white.

Thank you, G-d. Jai guru deva om.

Sorrisi e canzoni VI

Stellina_08
  1. physical activity and the ability to do it (a repeat of a repeat, but SO important)
  2. making a difference, nel mio piccolo
  3. learning to recognize and insist on what I want
  4. Hello Kitty in Swarovski against a black cashmere turtleneck (f*ck yeah!)
  5. making new friends in New York and Italy thanks to knitting
  6. little by little, learning to set aside inappropriate loyalty
  7. the ability to pretend I don’t know what the GBP is worth
  8. E mi attacco alle stelle…
  9. ‘Na stella guarda a luna cull’uocchie de guagliune s’interroga si ammore è fantasia do core e si nu juorno turnarrà… (translation here)

Pensée du dimanche 10 février

Lacrimae
When will our consciences grow so tender that we will act to prevent human misery rather than avenge it?
—Eleanor Roosevelt

Magni Fabii

The world, it seems, teems with magni Fabii. In the musical realm, we have Fabio Luisi, Fabio Biondi, and Fabio Bidini.

And in the world of calcio, we have Fabio Cannavaro—who scored in Italy’s 3-1 victory over Portugal in yesterday’s friendly—and two other magni Fabii. We celebrate them now!

Fa_qua Fabio Quagliarella, like Fabio Cannavaro, my nonna, and my beloved sor’s family, hails from Campania. He also scored against Portugal and is a winsome young man with a penchant for spectacular goals. Note that the Azzurri wore their new outfits yesterday.


Fa_gro Fabio Grosso, who tops the man-pile at left, was the hero of the 2006 World Cup. His assist yesterday set up Luca Toni’s goal against Portugal. Alas, Grosso now plays in the Ligue 1, the most sorry group ever of catenacciari (believe me, I am an eyewitness). Torna, Fabietto, torna! Ha ragione la mamma di Giò: So’ c*r*gne pour de vrai!


Ruberti_del_furmai Rubertì del furmai, ci vediamo a Bergamo. Sarò in compagnia di un bellissimo bimbo appassionato di Magritte ed i suoi genitori. Ci diamo appuntamento al banco nespole? Pota sì!


Année du Rat

Rat_2008_2

Kung hei fat choi!

One year of the rat has come to an end chez vilaine fille. She hopes and prays that the new Year of the Rat will be a good one for all.

According to one forecast,

The Rat is the first sign of the Chinese zodiac and signifies new beginnings. This year is thus an appropriate time to start new ventures, especially groundbreakings. This includes new ideas, directions, and ways of doing things. It is a time to experiment and put plans into action, as there will be plenty of opportunities to achieve success.

Get rat facts, rat quotes, and more. Read your horoscope, and don’t forget to wear red, eat sweets and fish, and enjoy the holiday’s many delightful traditions. New Yorkers, this is an excellent time to visit the Museum of Chinese in America.

New Year’s blessings to all!